Well, I did it! I made it for all 7 days of the challenge. It is a challenge, right? Is there a prize? How many of y'all made it all 7 days? When you've not been blogging on a very regular basis, hitting this mark is a great achievement!
Today is also the day that I now have two - two mind you - children who have reached the "end of the 2nd decade of their life" milestone. Wow, it is hard to believe that I am now the mother of two twenty-somethings. That must mean that I am getting old.
Happy Birthday to my dd - Ms 20 yo!
God Bless!
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Sunday, March 2, 2014
7 in 7 Day 7 and a Happy Birthday
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Saturday, March 1, 2014
A Little Silence
Since this is day 6 of 7 of participating in the 7 in 7 posts, and I'm going to be immersed in silence as you read this, I'm writing this ahead of time.
Yes, as we speak (or should I say, as you read) I am in the midst of whatever it is God is going to be showing me during my yearly silent retreat. I am blessed to be able to attend this yearly women's retreat done by the incredible priests of Miles Christi and held at the breathtaking Marytown Shrine. I do believe that this is my 7th year, and each year has been quite a blessing.
So as you read this very brief post, I just ask that you say a prayer for those of us who are on this retreat. Some will be for the very first time, others will be faces I see on a yearly basis. Please pray that we can all be open to what God wants to reveal to us and that we can have the grace to implement His will into our daily lives!
Thanks.
Yes, as we speak (or should I say, as you read) I am in the midst of whatever it is God is going to be showing me during my yearly silent retreat. I am blessed to be able to attend this yearly women's retreat done by the incredible priests of Miles Christi and held at the breathtaking Marytown Shrine. I do believe that this is my 7th year, and each year has been quite a blessing.
So as you read this very brief post, I just ask that you say a prayer for those of us who are on this retreat. Some will be for the very first time, others will be faces I see on a yearly basis. Please pray that we can all be open to what God wants to reveal to us and that we can have the grace to implement His will into our daily lives!
Thanks.
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Friday, February 28, 2014
7 Quick Takes Where we discuss what Mark Twain said
Ms 21 yo bought a book this week called "Under the Covers and Between the Sheets". With a name like that, and young children around, I had to check the book out :) Turns out its "The inside story behind classic characters, authors, unforgettable phrases and unexpected endings". On the back is a quote from Mark Twain that left me in tears. He once wrote of Jane Austen, "Every time I read Pride and Prejudice I want to dig her up and beat her over the skull with her own shin-bone." I don't know about you, but the thought of a great writer writing that about another great writer just cracked me up. I think I'll be borrowing that book sometime!
I'm gearing up for my annual silent retreat, but since I need a post for tomorrow, you'll just have to wait till then to find out about it!
It's time to bring out some new spring fragrances for our soap. The weather might not be cooperating, but maybe with some great new smells we can coax it along. Go to our shop and check out our Banana Berry Almond, Grapefruit Margarita, Lavender Oatmeal and Midnight Jasmine, as well as all of our other great smelling soaps.
This will hopefully bring a smile to your face. The theater troupe my kids belong to does a weekly youtube series called "Hope's Cafe". The retro episodes highlight some of the kids as the "mini-me" of the adult actors. This one is cute.
Here's the episode with Lola and Nicki as adults. I think those kids did a good job, don't you?
I realized last week that my iPod is sorely lacking in weight lifting music. Usually my husband puts on some 80s rock from Pandora, but once in awhile we like to mix it up a bit. I started looking to my iPod and realized that country music love songs aren't that motivating when you're trying to lift weights. I happened upon "My Songs Know What You Did in the Dark" by the Fall Out Boy which is a great song to dead lift to. If anyone has any other great work out songs, I'd love to hear your favorites.
I've heard rumors of more snow this weekend. Rumors ranging from a light dusting to 14 inches by the time Sunday is over. We have a 1 1/2 hour drive home on Sunday so I'm hoping the dusting prediction is the correct one. I hope your weekend is full of sunshine and warm weather and NO white stuff falling from the sky.
God Bless!
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Thursday, February 27, 2014
7 in 7 and Theme Thursday
Today is not only DAY 4 in Jen's 7 Posts in 7 Days, I am also linking up with Clan Donaldson and the Theme Thursday extravaganza.
Today's theme is: Fences
We do not have a fence. In fact, there aren't many fences to be found around here (thankfully, in my opinion), but there is one fence nearby that I love to look at all year round.
This fence encloses a property of about 30 acres. The house is very large and it backs up to the local creek. It really is a gorgeous piece of property and we love to walk past it when the weather is nice. The fence isn't much to get excited about, but the view as a whole is quite peaceful.
God Bless!
Today's theme is: Fences
We do not have a fence. In fact, there aren't many fences to be found around here (thankfully, in my opinion), but there is one fence nearby that I love to look at all year round.
This fence encloses a property of about 30 acres. The house is very large and it backs up to the local creek. It really is a gorgeous piece of property and we love to walk past it when the weather is nice. The fence isn't much to get excited about, but the view as a whole is quite peaceful.
God Bless!
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Wednesday, February 26, 2014
Split Brain Syndrome
Day 3 of 7 Posts in 7 Days with Jen!
Do you suffer from "Split Brain Syndrome"? Is it actually a syndrome or is just something that goes on in my aging, over-full, busy brain?
What? You don't know what it is?
Let me give you an example:
Tuesday morning is the morning we have writing class at our house beginning at 9:45. It means we have a lot to accomplish before people start arriving, so (and here's where the split brain problem comes in) part of my brain is planning about how to get breakfast, clean up the house, arrange the seating and get our CCM stuff done before 9:45.
Simultaneously, the other side of my brain is working on this: Monday night before bed, Ms 18 yo asks if we are going to Mass with them in the morning. "Yes," I respond. "After Mass I can go get gas in the car and then stop at the store for the snacks the boys need for their Blue Knights meeting tomorrow night". Perfect plan, I won't need to make an extra trip out.
Tuesday morning I wake up and realize that Split Brain Syndrome has hit yet again. "We can't go to Mass with you, we have all this stuff to do to get ready for class," I say to Ms 18 yo. Her response? "Well, that's what I thought, so I was surprised when you said you'd be going with us!"
Why, I ask time and time again, doesn't anybody ever call me on this?? Their response is always the same "Well, I was wondering why you said you could do that", so why don't they just fill me in ahead of time that my brain is planning two different things at the exact same time? I can't tell you how many times this happens to me. Should I be worried?? or is this a common thing with women who have a lot of kids and whose calendar has no more white space on it??
God Bless!
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Tuesday, February 25, 2014
A Patriotic Afternoon
Here we are at day #2 for Jen's 7 in 7 link up!
Welcome back! This past weekend, besides spending time raising my blood pressure, we also got to spend the afternoon with some great families at a Patriotic Day that the leader of the St. Faustina Club (a group two of my girls belong to) put together. Each year the group studies a different country and culture and this year they're studying the good ole US of A. I have to say that I thought Mrs K did an outstanding job last year with the French dinner for Valentine's Day, but this year might have even beat that!
We started the afternoon off praying the Patriotic Rosary.
If you've never done that, I'd encourage you to go here to check out exactly how to do it, and then...go do it. There is something so encouraging about praying for each and every soul in each and every state of our union. Add to that the patriotic songs and, by golly, it makes your heart want to burst!
After the rosary we had a contingent of Veteran's come and post the flag for us and we all said the Pledge of Allegiance together.
They had also practiced a wash board band to accompany some of the songs. I mean really, when was the last time you heard a wash board band? They were good, too.
Each of the girls had prepared a 2 minute speech to present (for a chance at a cash prize, even) based on something American. We heard everything from Christopher Columbus to JFK.
This is Ms 10 yo telling us a tall tale about Arizona weather.
Mrs. K even got the older boys and dads involved by calling them up on stage to sing an unrehearsed rendition of "Take Me Out to the Ball Game".
Of course we topped it all of with a big pot luck dinner and some great desserts. We are so blessed to have some incredibly talented moms in our homeschool group who are willing to plan and prepare some great events that we will all remember for a long time. Thanks, Mrs K, for your dedication and hard work with our girls, even though your kids have long since graduated!
God Bless!
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Monday, February 24, 2014
We Finally Won, and Why it Wasn't All it Was Cracked up to be!
For the past 8 weeks, two of my children have been putting me through pure torture. Each weekend we go and cheer them on as they play basketball for the Upward Sports Christian program.
Last year, Mr 13 yo's team never won a game. This year, they won two games so it wasn't quite so bad. This past Friday they played the team again that they had played the very first week. That time the other team beat our guys by about 32 points, give or take a few. This time, they didn't know what hit 'em. Our team did end up losing, but man they kept that team on their toes. The final score of this game was 12 to 18. You could tell the other team's coaches and kids were pretty darn frustrated to see how far these kids had come in 8 weeks.
Going into Saturday's game, Ms 10 yo's team hadn't won a game yet. This week wasn't even looking like they were going to get to play because the other team only had four girls. In order to play, one of our girls had to volunteer to play for the other team. Here you are, asking an 8, 9 or 10 year old girl to go play on a team with people she doesn't know, all the time knowing that this is the last chance HER team has to win. One of the girls did volunteer and it was an amazing thing.
While I am happy that our team finally won a game, it was kind of a bittersweet win knowing that the other team only had 5 girls and they had to all play the entire game. You could tell they were dragging by the end. It got to the point in the game where the entire section of spectators were rooting for the underdog team.
While the season had its ups and downs, it was a fun time to go and root for the kids and to watch them as they've grown both in ability and in sportsmanship over the past 8 weeks. I will admit, however, that my blood pressure will be glad for the break in excitement!
God Bless!
Last year, Mr 13 yo's team never won a game. This year, they won two games so it wasn't quite so bad. This past Friday they played the team again that they had played the very first week. That time the other team beat our guys by about 32 points, give or take a few. This time, they didn't know what hit 'em. Our team did end up losing, but man they kept that team on their toes. The final score of this game was 12 to 18. You could tell the other team's coaches and kids were pretty darn frustrated to see how far these kids had come in 8 weeks.
Going into Saturday's game, Ms 10 yo's team hadn't won a game yet. This week wasn't even looking like they were going to get to play because the other team only had four girls. In order to play, one of our girls had to volunteer to play for the other team. Here you are, asking an 8, 9 or 10 year old girl to go play on a team with people she doesn't know, all the time knowing that this is the last chance HER team has to win. One of the girls did volunteer and it was an amazing thing.
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| #21 on the left is the girl who switched teams. Ms 10 yo is guarding her :) |
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While the season had its ups and downs, it was a fun time to go and root for the kids and to watch them as they've grown both in ability and in sportsmanship over the past 8 weeks. I will admit, however, that my blood pressure will be glad for the break in excitement!
God Bless!
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Sunday, February 23, 2014
I'm In! Are You?
I'm in! Come back tomorrow for the first of 7 days straight of posting. This will take some gargantuan effort on my part seeing as how I've had trouble even reading blogs let alone keeping up with this one. Make sure to come back and visit, and hey, maybe even drop a comment or two along the way. I'm looking forward to visiting with y'all!
God Bless!
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Saturday, July 27, 2013
Off To the Conference
Today is the 6th day of our 7 Posts in 7 Days and as you read this I'll be heading to or attending the IHM Conference in Chicagoland. I'm very excited to finally be able to go as I have missed the last couple of years. It will be fun to meet up with friends, listen to a great line-up of talks and browse the vendor tables.
Here are some of the talks I'm looking forward to:
The Catholicism of The Hobbit by Prof Joseph Pearce
Discipline: The First Essential of Homeschooling by Virginia Seuffert (she is a great speaker!)
Marriage and Married Life in the Spirit of St. Francis de Sales by Canon Matthew Talarico - I've heard great things about Canon Talarico and am so looking forward to this talk!
I'll also be perusing the IEW table as I am finally going to get what I need to do this with my kids. I think we are going to focus a lot on writing this year, so I'm bound and determined to figure this out.
I've also been hearing a lot of great things about Classically Catholic Memory and I'm hoping that somehow I can look at their stuff. We'll see what I can find out about that.
More tomorrow, I hope, on how things went. Have a great Saturday.
God Bless!
Here are some of the talks I'm looking forward to:
The Catholicism of The Hobbit by Prof Joseph Pearce
Discipline: The First Essential of Homeschooling by Virginia Seuffert (she is a great speaker!)
Marriage and Married Life in the Spirit of St. Francis de Sales by Canon Matthew Talarico - I've heard great things about Canon Talarico and am so looking forward to this talk!
I'll also be perusing the IEW table as I am finally going to get what I need to do this with my kids. I think we are going to focus a lot on writing this year, so I'm bound and determined to figure this out.
I've also been hearing a lot of great things about Classically Catholic Memory and I'm hoping that somehow I can look at their stuff. We'll see what I can find out about that.
More tomorrow, I hope, on how things went. Have a great Saturday.
God Bless!
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Friday, July 26, 2013
7 Quick Takes July 26, 2013
Happy Feast of St. Joachim and St. Anne!
Aren't these the most beautiful flowers? Ms 10 yo had a tea party for her birthday this past week and we asked all her friends to bring a flower for a friend bouquet and this is what one of the girls brought.
Absolutely lovely!
I'd like to direct your attention to the Life of Fred math pages on my website. I am trying to sell off the rest of the stock I have on hand as I've decided not to order any more books because it just isn't cost effective for me to do so. If you're looking to buy Life of Fred books for the upcoming school year, please consider purchasing them from me :) Thanks!
I'm so excited that the IHM Chicago conference is this weekend. More about that in Saturday's post (I mean really, I'm participating in the 7 posts in 7 days thing, so I need to save some fodder for day #6). Friday night, however, some of my girls and I are heading up there to meet up with our favorite Catholic author and her hubby, Regina Doman. We haven't seen them since about this time last year, so we're looking forward to seeing them again and catching up! (Not that I'm name dropping or anything.)
I still am having a dickens of a time trying to figure out our curriculum for this coming school year. I know it is fast approaching, and I know this is why some people sign up with a provider so they don't have to make these decisions each year. I, however, just can't do it. I've thought about it every year, but when push comes to shove, I just can't do it. My kids all learn different and I'm so particular that I feel like things go smoother when I can pick and choose my own stuff. Hopefully the conference this weekend will help provide me with some direction.
Because we haven't been busy enough, next week begins our four day participation in Catholic Kids' Camp. This is an awesome program developed and directed by three ambitious sisters (not Sisters, mind you) we know. It's a totally Catholic VBS! The kids absolutely love it, but it is four long days to be sure.
This week's weather has been absolutely gorgeous! Sunny and in the 70s- low 80s during the day and into the 60s and even some upper 50s at night. And it only makes sense that it's been gorgeous this week because they came and finally were able to fix our air conditioner! We ran it Monday afternoon just to make sure it worked, but then turned it off and have been enjoying the coolness of the week instead. Why does it always seem to work out that way?
Conference on Saturday, an informal wedding reception in the evening and not a thing but Mass on Sunday. That's the way I like to end my weekends, especially when a busy week will be following! Hope you have a safe and holy weekend.
God Bless!
Aren't these the most beautiful flowers? Ms 10 yo had a tea party for her birthday this past week and we asked all her friends to bring a flower for a friend bouquet and this is what one of the girls brought.
Absolutely lovely!
I'd like to direct your attention to the Life of Fred math pages on my website. I am trying to sell off the rest of the stock I have on hand as I've decided not to order any more books because it just isn't cost effective for me to do so. If you're looking to buy Life of Fred books for the upcoming school year, please consider purchasing them from me :) Thanks!
I'm so excited that the IHM Chicago conference is this weekend. More about that in Saturday's post (I mean really, I'm participating in the 7 posts in 7 days thing, so I need to save some fodder for day #6). Friday night, however, some of my girls and I are heading up there to meet up with our favorite Catholic author and her hubby, Regina Doman. We haven't seen them since about this time last year, so we're looking forward to seeing them again and catching up! (Not that I'm name dropping or anything.)
I still am having a dickens of a time trying to figure out our curriculum for this coming school year. I know it is fast approaching, and I know this is why some people sign up with a provider so they don't have to make these decisions each year. I, however, just can't do it. I've thought about it every year, but when push comes to shove, I just can't do it. My kids all learn different and I'm so particular that I feel like things go smoother when I can pick and choose my own stuff. Hopefully the conference this weekend will help provide me with some direction.
Because we haven't been busy enough, next week begins our four day participation in Catholic Kids' Camp. This is an awesome program developed and directed by three ambitious sisters (not Sisters, mind you) we know. It's a totally Catholic VBS! The kids absolutely love it, but it is four long days to be sure.
This week's weather has been absolutely gorgeous! Sunny and in the 70s- low 80s during the day and into the 60s and even some upper 50s at night. And it only makes sense that it's been gorgeous this week because they came and finally were able to fix our air conditioner! We ran it Monday afternoon just to make sure it worked, but then turned it off and have been enjoying the coolness of the week instead. Why does it always seem to work out that way?
Conference on Saturday, an informal wedding reception in the evening and not a thing but Mass on Sunday. That's the way I like to end my weekends, especially when a busy week will be following! Hope you have a safe and holy weekend.
God Bless!
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Thursday, July 25, 2013
Theme Thursday - Askew
I must confess that this one had me stumped. I've been thinking about it all week and have asked my kids multiple times for ideas and we all came up blank.
Wednesday evening Ms 21 yo was setting up the fire pit for a "bonfire" she was having for some friends when I noticed that the pit was slightly askew. Ah ha, problem solved.
So, for the most unexciting photo of my Theme Thursday career, here is my "askew" photo!
Go on over to Clan Donaldson, where I am SURE there are more interesting photos than this one.
God Bless!
Wednesday evening Ms 21 yo was setting up the fire pit for a "bonfire" she was having for some friends when I noticed that the pit was slightly askew. Ah ha, problem solved.
So, for the most unexciting photo of my Theme Thursday career, here is my "askew" photo!
Go on over to Clan Donaldson, where I am SURE there are more interesting photos than this one.
God Bless!
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Wednesday, July 24, 2013
The Comparison Game
"Some people can sleep in cow manure and come out with $50 bills in their hands." That was one of my favorite quotes from a talk I listened to the other night, and it heralded in the part of the talk about not comparing yourself to other people/families.
On retreat and then again in the talk, the priests said that God does not give equal graces to everyone. Some people and some families get more graces than others because they have a different calling in life and a different mission they need to fulfill which will require more graces than another person or family.
In the talk it was mentioned that you need to discern what God is calling your family to do. Some families are called to a more contemplative type of life, while others are called to be more social.
For this reason alone, it is not going to be productive to compare yourself or your family to someone else. It is so important to remember that God calls each one of us to something completely different and we might not have any idea what another person or family is truly being called to do, so there is no reason to compare ourselves.
For example, we have a wonderful family in our homeschooling circle. This family knows everyone, greets everyone, makes friends wherever they go. They are very involved in their parish and in the Catholic community at large. Their children have had amazing opportunities and they have accomplished many things in their young (teen to early 20s) lives. Many people have always looked to them and said, "Boy, why can't my family be like theirs?" or "Why can't my children be as accomplished, or perfect, or polite?"
While it is good to look to those types of families for inspiration and ideas, in no way can you ask those questions out of disdain for your own family or children. God has called that family to an amazing, evangelizing type of life. He has not called too many other families we know to that same standard. When others try to follow in their footsteps, if that is not the path God has chosen for them, they will not be successful and will end up feeling even worse.
This lesson is SO important! It is a temptation to compare yourself to someone else. Ask the Blessed Mother to take that temptation away from you. Pray that God will give you guidance on your own path to follow. Learn from others but always double check if that is what God wants YOU to do.
Homeschooling naturally lends itself to this type of mentality. If I find myself in the comparison mode, I try to snap out of it as fast as possible because it usually doesn't end up anywhere good. Just because your neighbor seems to be able to do everything right, doesn't mean that you are doing something wrong when things don't work out for you. God gives each of us the graces we need to live the life He wants us to live. It is simply our job to utilize all of them.
God Bless!
On retreat and then again in the talk, the priests said that God does not give equal graces to everyone. Some people and some families get more graces than others because they have a different calling in life and a different mission they need to fulfill which will require more graces than another person or family.
In the talk it was mentioned that you need to discern what God is calling your family to do. Some families are called to a more contemplative type of life, while others are called to be more social.
For this reason alone, it is not going to be productive to compare yourself or your family to someone else. It is so important to remember that God calls each one of us to something completely different and we might not have any idea what another person or family is truly being called to do, so there is no reason to compare ourselves.
For example, we have a wonderful family in our homeschooling circle. This family knows everyone, greets everyone, makes friends wherever they go. They are very involved in their parish and in the Catholic community at large. Their children have had amazing opportunities and they have accomplished many things in their young (teen to early 20s) lives. Many people have always looked to them and said, "Boy, why can't my family be like theirs?" or "Why can't my children be as accomplished, or perfect, or polite?"
While it is good to look to those types of families for inspiration and ideas, in no way can you ask those questions out of disdain for your own family or children. God has called that family to an amazing, evangelizing type of life. He has not called too many other families we know to that same standard. When others try to follow in their footsteps, if that is not the path God has chosen for them, they will not be successful and will end up feeling even worse.
This lesson is SO important! It is a temptation to compare yourself to someone else. Ask the Blessed Mother to take that temptation away from you. Pray that God will give you guidance on your own path to follow. Learn from others but always double check if that is what God wants YOU to do.
Homeschooling naturally lends itself to this type of mentality. If I find myself in the comparison mode, I try to snap out of it as fast as possible because it usually doesn't end up anywhere good. Just because your neighbor seems to be able to do everything right, doesn't mean that you are doing something wrong when things don't work out for you. God gives each of us the graces we need to live the life He wants us to live. It is simply our job to utilize all of them.
God Bless!
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Tuesday, July 23, 2013
Inordinate Attachments
What are you overly attached to? Comfort, money, me-time, food, your children (yes that is a possibility), air-conditioning?
At various times in my life I have to admit to being inordinately attached to all of the above. This past week when our a/c was broken I found out how attached I was to it. I might not use it a lot, but I want to know it is there when I need to use it. It was a good thing that last week came on the heels of my retreat because I needed the extra graces to keep my temper at a cooler temperature than my house was!
There was much time spent on retreat looking at and talking about what it is that we are attached to that is keeping us from giving everything over to God. There's always going to be something. At first it will be the big things, but as we progress in the spiritual life, those things will start to get more subtle and harder to weed out.
I mentioned above about being inordinately attached to one's children. Father gave the example of how that can play out. When a child goes to his mother and explains to her that he feels he has a vocation to the priesthood a mother with an inordinate attachment will try to talk him out of it for her own selfish reasons. Of course her reasons might not seem selfish at first, but if she really looks at them, she will realize that the thought of giving her son totally over to God is more than she wants to handle. This is one big way in which a mother can be inordinately attached to her child.
The point of many of these talks and times of meditation was to try to root out one, or maybe even a few, things that we can't let go of that are holding us back from giving ourselves totally, and in a big way, over to God.
What is keeping us from trusting in Him fully? What is keeping us from letting Him plan out our lives, our months, our days? What is keeping us from giving Him back all that He has given us so that He can use it for His purposes in our lives?
This is a lot to think about, but the goal is to find something that we need to detach from and then come up with a resolution that says how we are going to do that.
God Bless!
At various times in my life I have to admit to being inordinately attached to all of the above. This past week when our a/c was broken I found out how attached I was to it. I might not use it a lot, but I want to know it is there when I need to use it. It was a good thing that last week came on the heels of my retreat because I needed the extra graces to keep my temper at a cooler temperature than my house was!
There was much time spent on retreat looking at and talking about what it is that we are attached to that is keeping us from giving everything over to God. There's always going to be something. At first it will be the big things, but as we progress in the spiritual life, those things will start to get more subtle and harder to weed out.
I mentioned above about being inordinately attached to one's children. Father gave the example of how that can play out. When a child goes to his mother and explains to her that he feels he has a vocation to the priesthood a mother with an inordinate attachment will try to talk him out of it for her own selfish reasons. Of course her reasons might not seem selfish at first, but if she really looks at them, she will realize that the thought of giving her son totally over to God is more than she wants to handle. This is one big way in which a mother can be inordinately attached to her child.
The point of many of these talks and times of meditation was to try to root out one, or maybe even a few, things that we can't let go of that are holding us back from giving ourselves totally, and in a big way, over to God.
What is keeping us from trusting in Him fully? What is keeping us from letting Him plan out our lives, our months, our days? What is keeping us from giving Him back all that He has given us so that He can use it for His purposes in our lives?
This is a lot to think about, but the goal is to find something that we need to detach from and then come up with a resolution that says how we are going to do that.
God Bless!
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Monday, July 22, 2013
The Virtue of Austerity
Austerity is defined as the state of being austere. If you're like me, that doesn't mean a hill of beans. Let's try that again. From the Free Dictionary Online:
aus•tere (ɔˈstɪər)
adj.
aus•tere (ɔˈstɪər)
adj.
1. severe in manner or appearance; strict; forbidding.
2. rigorously self-disciplined and severely moral; ascetic; abstinent.
3. without excess, luxury, or ease: an austere life.
4. without ornament or adornment; severely simple: austere writing.
5. lacking softness.
The priests last week on retreat mentioned the virtue of austerity quite a bit. When looking at the above definitions, I would say that they were referring to the third definition - without excess, luxury, or ease.
We spent a lot of time meditating on what it means to live a life of austerity. Sometimes scrupulosity gets the better of me and one day during this topic it did. I started to scrutinize every thing that I had bought recently and wondered if I had started heading down the wrong path - the one away from God instead of towards it. For someone without scrupulosity, you might laugh and think I've lost my marbles. For someone who knows how this can rear its ugly head, you understand the turmoil I was in.
I talked to one of the priests about it and he brought me back into perspective. Living the virtue of austerity is a matter of balance. He gave me two examples which I think are beneficial for keeping things in perspective.
The first was someone who needs to purchase a new car. They have the money to buy a Mercedes, but do they really NEED to buy a new Mercedes. Mind you, there's nothing sinful about buying one because they legitimately have the money to do it, but for someone who is trying to live a life of austerity, could they buy a much less expensive, but still fully functional, car - say maybe a new Honda or something of the sort. Either car would get them where they needed to go, so it comes down to a matter of whether or not they need to spend the money on a more expensive, comfortable car.
As the priest pointed out, if the person made the decision to buy the less expensive car, then another way to live this out even fuller would be to donate the difference between what they spent and what they could have spent. This is truly living this virtue.
He also gave me another example. On flying a discount airline from Chicago to Detroit, the cost of the ticket is about $30. For that price you get a seat but virtually no leg room. As you board the plane, they inform you that you could upgrade your seat to one with more leg room for an additional $20. Assuming the person is in no great NEED of additional leg room (they have no impediments or what-not), do they really need to spend the additional money for more leg room for that short flight, or could they save the money and use it for a better purpose?
The person trying to live austerity would, of course, deal with the lack of leg room and use the money elsewhere. Again, there is no sin in spending the extra money to be more comfortable - none at all. The question comes down to whether or not you really NEED to.
The point of all of this during our retreat was for us to really look into ourselves and decide whether or not we were giving all we had to God or were we using our material goods in ways that could be improved upon. Can we give it all to God to use as He wants us to use it? That would be living austerity. Or do we tend to use our material goods for the way we want to; for our own comfort, entertainment, fun, ease? Again, not in ways that are sinful, but in ways that maybe we could let go of.
God has given us all that we have, are we giving it back to Him and allowing Him to use it for His purposes in our lives?
God Bless!
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Sunday, July 21, 2013
7 Posts in 7 Days
I'm joining Jen over at Conversion Diary in her link up for next week: 7 posts in 7 days! Sounds like fun. Sounds like a challenge. Sounds like something I can do because I was kind of already planning on doing it and just happened upon this this morning :). Oh well, check back all week, Monday through next Sunday, for exciting and thought provoking posts! I'm pretty sure I'll be posting about some thoughts from my silent retreat, so it's sure to be rich (or at least I'm hoping it will be!!).
To get you ready and in the mood, I'll leave you with this thought provoking picture.
I went to the car on Saturday and found this:
I had to really stop and think about why my shoes were so carefully placed in the car like that. Took me a few minutes, but then I remembered. But wait, maybe I shouldn't tell you why, because if I told you, then you would have nothing to think about. So, if you're game and you have any ideas as to why my shoes would be left in the car like that, then feel free to drop me a comment. Otherwise, I'll see you tomorrow!
God Bless!
To get you ready and in the mood, I'll leave you with this thought provoking picture.
I went to the car on Saturday and found this:
I had to really stop and think about why my shoes were so carefully placed in the car like that. Took me a few minutes, but then I remembered. But wait, maybe I shouldn't tell you why, because if I told you, then you would have nothing to think about. So, if you're game and you have any ideas as to why my shoes would be left in the car like that, then feel free to drop me a comment. Otherwise, I'll see you tomorrow!
God Bless!
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